Managed to bicycle about 75
miles today. Conditions were perfect, wind was at my back, not too hot or too
cold, and it was just a beautiful day for a great ride. Traffic was reasonable,
back roads were beautiful, and I even passed an ADM plant today.
Started
out in New London, Ohio, and finished up and Findlay, Ohio. Could've gone another 25
miles easily but I would've ended up in the middle of nowhere. Storm is on its
way and did not want to get caught in the open. I would've loved to have done a
century, felt great when I quit and could've kept going. Should not be long before I'm in Indiana. Once I hit Monroeville, Indiana, I will be on the Northern Tier
and the maps will be much easier to follow. Google bicycle maps leave a lot to
be desired! Finally just said to heck with it and kept going west. Great day
for biking. I'll see how this storm affects things tomorrow.
Confession
time
I
will not name names so as to protect the innocent. But this is the story: on this trip I have approached churches on
two occasions to see if I could pitch my tent on their lawn when a storm was
coming my way. On both occasions my request was declined. Two days ago while
traveling across Ohio I encountered a severe
storm. Strong winds, very cold, and heavy rain were my companions. To say that
I was miserable does not even begin to capture my feelings. I looked at one of
the apps on my phone that shows campgrounds in the area. I was pleased to
see that 20 miles away from where I was, while the storm was hitting its peak,
there was a campground. I called them,
told the proprietor that I was frozen to the quick, and asked if they could put
me up for the night. He readily agreed
recognizing that I was in trouble. But in the course of the conversation the
proprietor brought to my attention "we are an alternative lifestyle
campground." I had no idea what he
was talking about. Short of drawing a
picture for me, he pointed out that they practiced a gay lifestyle. I asked if it would be a problem if I stayed
there in light of the fact that I was straight.
The proprietor said no problem at all, we understand your situation and
will be glad to assist you in anyway we can. They were extremely hospitable,
friendly, and made me feel at home. Now
let's consider, I had two churches turn me down and an "alternative
lifestyle campground" accept me with open arms. I believe there may be a
biblical message here. I have pondered this for the last 70 miles as I've
considered these turns of events. For
me, this experience has enlightened and opened my awareness to kindness in its
many forms. To the folks at the
alternative lifestyle campground, you know who you are, and you have my sincere
thanks. The lessons garnered from this experience will remain with me and I
hope guide me to make good decisions when it comes to kindness and hospitality
in the future.
Steve...great result today, but sorry to hear about your experience with the churches. I just sent this story onto my church leaders to request they develop a policy now to allow bicyclists to camp in our yard with welcome arms. Thanks for your measured and thoughtful response to these slights....
ReplyDeleteGreetings Paul, so great to hear from you. I've given a lot of thought to this as well and I believe your approach is the right one. Anticipate the challenges and have a solution ahead of time. Good idea!
DeleteWow! Dad, you're becoming a "studmuffin" (to use your words). That is amazing progress. Also, glad the gays were so accommodating! You're on quite an adventure.
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