First Toyoko: she had married an American that she met while still living in Japan. They had a wonderful marriage, had traveled all around the world and now reside in Iowa, albeit, her husband lives in a rest home as he struggles with the terminal stages of a brain tumor. When she found that I had lived in Japan she wanted to talk all about her childhood home. For me that was a real treat because living in Japan was one of my greatest childhood memories. We spoke of her country, Mount Fuji, the quality of rice and how it can't be matched by any other rice in the world, and the beauty of the country, as well as the customs. For me it was a joy to speak about Japan, a country that possesses, for me, some of my fondest memories.
Mary, who had first caught my attention with that look of sadness, softened as our conversation progressed. That look I had seen years ago when visiting a friend's mother... a friend who had lost his life at far too young an age. While pleased with my visit, it brought up a mixture of emotions as a result of her son's death. That same look was on Mary's face. As it turns out, she had a wonderful son in whom she had great pride and he, Daniel, had been an Olympic caliber bicyclist. In the early 1990s he was killed by a careless motorist, one with a terrible driving record, and Mary has never fully recovered from his loss. Seeing me, a bicyclist, brought back those painful memories. Through the mysteries of circumstance we were thrown together. I believe that our discussions were good for all of us. Toyoko was able to revisit her beloved Japan, Mary was able to talk about her son whom she loved so much, and I in turn became ever more committed to the idea of a safe system of trails that would cross our country for all to enjoy and where bicyclists, hikers, and motorists can be free of the impediment of one another's activities. This, I believe, would be a worthy cause of one's endeavors and one to which I will commit. I find it strange, one of God's mysteries, how people can be thrown together and through their communion can deal with issues in their life. God works in mysterious ways.
Dyersville, Iowa, was the movie site of "Field of Dreams." It is here that you can visit the original baseball diamond carved into the field where the movie was filmed. There are no organized activities on the field so you can bring your baseball equipment and set up an impromptu game...it's free admission, open daily from April to November and available to all.
As a kid I used to love to go to confession...so liberating being free of sin! Unfortunately the effects rarely lasted more than 5 to 10 minutes...I was as prone to sin as I was addicted to mischievousness. Perhaps if my confessionals had been as beautiful as these, sinlessness might've had a better hold on me.
It was very nice to meet you. You give inspiration to everyone you meet. Have a safe ride and I will be following you. Thanks again.
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Steve,
ReplyDeleteEach day your trip reveals so many new and truly incredible encounters and stories... Thank you for sharing these... Hope the winds become more favorable and the weather more spring like... keep your feet on the pedals.. can't wait for your next installment to this fantastic journey! Take care
Monte
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I thoroughly enjoy following your journey through your cranky spoke blog. I've not left comments yet but read it every day. You are inspiring to tough out the less than ideal weather. Wishing you many warmer and non windy days ahead.
You have so many great stories of war veterans and special people along the way. May I ask a favor for you to keep my dad in your prayers for a segment of your trip, please? His dad died in WWII and dad lived some tough times with the Hungarian revolution and the war. We just moved him to hospice 2 weeks ago as we have given up on the last battle and I am now on my way to Canada to be with him. I love that you maximize every day to the fullest and are living one of your dreams. Stay healthy and strong!
Regards,
Catherine